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Letting go of Negative People (2 min read)

Written by Millionaire’s Digest Team Member: Nola Crow

Founder & Owner of: 4373 Fashion Lane

Millionaire’s Digest Team, Contributor, Beauty and Fashion Writer


We talk about being inspirational in life. The first step in inspiring people is for you to let go of your own baggage. The baggage is the people who make your life toxic. The catch is: what if that person is a parent? I have a great friend. She is 45. She still struggles with the legging go part with her mom. My friend shares to much, in my opinion. Why? She knows her mom is judgmental.

If you know this, well why would you share information, you know she will judge you about? Maybe she’s a gluten for punishment? I don’t know. What I do know is that she has cried to me many times about it. I have shared my own struggles, with my mother, with my friend. My dear friend tells me often, she’s not strong as I am.

It’s not strength. It’s a force field. I have emotionally built it over the years. This force field has enabled me to finally see that my emotional well being rest on me letting go negative people in my life. Is this easy?

Nope! It’s freeing. Will you miss those negative people? Yes! Only the quirky things about them, will you miss. However, you will never cry over being treated a certain way. You may save money along the way. So how do we let them go? Good question! I am glad you asked!

  1. Know you are worth more.
  2. Remind yourself you need this to survive emotionally.
  3. Remind yourself, you are needed for better people and experiences. 
  4. Pray that the person will find growth and better ways.
  5. Never feel bag for walking away from a toxic relationship. 

Always remember, your first friend is God. Everyone else is dessert! Food = Good; Dessert = Friends & Family. You cannot have one without the other. However, in order to receive the second, you need the first.

xoxo,

Lioness Stargazer 😍


Article Credits: Nola Crow

Millionaire’s Digest Team, Contributor

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16 thoughts on “Letting go of Negative People (2 min read)”

  1. I can definitely relate to this blog post. We are at our most productive to other people and in our own lives when we are more positive and optimistic about life in general. Sadly, the people we love the most can dampen that with their negativity, if all they ever talk about and dwell on is their “misfortune”. Its one thing to allow someone to vent to us but over time, if they constantly discuss negativity, we will absorb those vibrations and start to take on their energy. I thoroughly loved this read. Peace and love to you.

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